there is a reason why I felt so bad for my brother in law.
She uses 'breastfeeding & kids clingy to her' to bozz him
around.
Poor man does a lot of chores.
Early morning, he takes out trash, brings down the laundry (He dont
wash it, cos I am still asleep and he didnt want the machine sounds
to wake me up, my room is next to the laundry room/garage.)
Then he rush home, rush his dinner, sit down, feed the kids, bathe
the kids and stays up with the kid if either of them sleep as late
as 4am. then he is off to work at 6am.
Sis, except for the morning, wake with the kids, bring them
downstairs, stay with them until they are settled and disappear
upstairs to surf internet. I make breakfast for adults &
kids.
And she appears only when I need to start prepare lunch. she helps
feed the kids lunch.
And when either kids needs to nap, I take the still awake kid out
for a walk to keep the house quiet.
Then back home to prepare dinner & later wash up.